Cremation Gardens: How to Create and Find One
Scattering the ashes at gardens is one way people dispose of the cremains after receiving them from cremation services in Westbury, NY.
Cremation gardens are sections of a cemetery earmarked to spread cremated remains. They can also be mixed, placed on the soil, or buried underground.
As more Americans embrace cremations, these gardens are becoming more popular. They are available in two forms — public gardens typically located in cemeteries and private gardens owned on personal properties.
Here is how to find and create either of them.
4 Ways to Find Cremation Gardens Near You
- Cremation gardens are not yet everywhere, which means some people might struggle to find one. However, these four suggestions should help.
- Use Google to search by entering the keyword “Scattering Garden” or “Cremation Garden.” Searching “Memorial Garden” works too. The results should contain options in your local area.
- Check with public gardens in your area. As more people embrace the ritual, many are charging people to scatter cremains to raise maintenance funds. See if the one in your area is offering such services.
- Ask cemetery administrators near you. You could do this via phone call or visit their office. Ask them if there is a special place to scatter ashes on their property and if they charge for it.
- Talk to a funeral director or a professional working in the death industry. They are likely to know public gardens where you can scatter or bury your loved one’s cremains.
How to Create a Cremation Garden on your Property
You don’t need a lot of space for a memorial garden. You can create a cremation garden that honors your loved one if you own private property.
To do this,
- Find a private area within the property. It could be in front, by the side, or at the back in a residential house. Make sure it is a quiet space with sunlight where you can find solitude when you need it.
- Plant their favorite plants and flowers. A private memorial garden is an opportunity to personalize your goodbye rituals. If they don’t have favorites, think about the scents and flavors you associate with them. Plants and flowers with red, white, and/or blue hues are also a good idea for veterans.
- Add appropriate statues or decor of something they loved. Dogs? Add a small dog statue. Birds? Adding a birdbath or bird feeder is a good idea. A wind chime is also a lovely accessory if they love music. The goal is to make the garden as personal and tributary as possible.
- This is optional, but you can also add a plaque or stone displaying their name. However, it should be temporary and transportable as permanent headstones might turn off future buyers if you decide to sell the land.
Finally, add a place to sit. The goal here is to have a space to think about the individual. It should be comfortable. A cozy chair or a bench works just fine.
TIP: Instead of erecting a headstone, engrave their name or favorite phrase on the chair.
For more information on ways to remember your departed, reach out to us, Roslyn Heights Funeral home. We are a Westbury, NY, cremation service, and our compassionate team is available to help. Visit our location or call us today.